Monday, January 25, 2010

Is it all in the details

Details every one wants details, some people are detail orientated but not me! I am definitely not detail orientated, I want things done and as fast as possible.

This morning as I was sitting in the dentists chair having a filling replaced, I watched the instruments going in and out of my mouth, the heads on the drill getting smaller and smaller as my dentist was contouring my new filling enough for me to get floss through my teeth. I decided then, there was no way I would ever have made a good dentist or a surgeon for that matter. Those delicate movements, those little details that mean so much, I am more your bull in the china shop type girl. Which contradicts my other "talent" in that I can be as patient as anything. So why if I am so patient can I not be bothered with the details of small things. For my job, I've made way to many mistakes with incorrect spelling - you know the final detail of spell check before you hand out your work. That's because I am so excited about finishing that I am printing that sucker and placing it on my bosses desk like a happy school girl. Only to have it placed back on mine with red ink on it. My colleague on the other hand is the complete opposite, everything is about details and we have to go over and over the same project changing words out that really most people couldn't care about. I write our company blog as I am talking to my audience over a cup of coffee. My colleague writes with the facts, in her words "I am a chatty writer". I would like to think most people would prefer my "chat" than the barebones.

Growing up I wanted to be a police woman, but being pretty poor sighted in one eye took that career off the table. My husband thinks I would have been an awful police woman anyway because we will be somewhere and he will notice details about people that I never see and its not the eye sight. I look at faces, he looks at stuff. He will say to me "did you see the size of that rock on that womans hand in the elevator" or a shoe comment or even bags and I truly never notice. The details just don't interest me.

So to those who I see and read this "I don't care that you are not wearing your make up" because I don't notice. I am sorry if you get an email with names that start with a lower case, its a detail I don't care about. I don't need to know the details of every recipe you cook, only the ones I ask for, most of all I just want to know if it tastes good. I love to scrapbook but I am not so good with all the little details that many of my friends need for their books. If you see me dress, most of my clothes are without details!

So there you have it details - not for me!

Oh and one last thing - thank you for all the comments about Hurricane, I will spare you the details of how he died. One detail that I can't bring myself to do is take him off my stick drawing or change my name to 2 Brits, 2 Yanks and 1 dog. Thank you everyone who commented, it really meant a lot to me during those first few days.

9 comments:

Christy said...

I LOVE your chatty writing style. And obviously your new job appreciates it too, or they wouldn't let you write their blog! And details, schmetails. I agree. And of course, so sorry about your beloved pooch. You may get another dog someday...so your blog title may well be true again. In the meantime, it's true in your heart and that's what matters!

The Muse said...

Christy, above has said it wonderfully and I agree with her, whole heartedly, at each point.

We would want you no other way.

And Hurricane will always be present in your heart and in your memory. So, in Spirit he is still with you.
I agree with what you wrote about him in the title!! :)

Kate Coveny Hood said...

My husband isn't one for details. He mother once said he's a "big picture kind of guy." So go with that. It's not that you can't do details - you're just too busy focusing on the big picture. Works for me!

Roshni Mitra Chintalapati said...

same here! I am trying desperately to change since I do happen to be a technical writer!! LOL!

Sorry to hear about Hurricane. My dog died about 3 years back and though he was at my parents' home and I hadn't seen him for 4 years, it still feels sad to see some of his pics now.

Iota said...

I'm a details person, but I need people like you around. Otherwise things would never get done!

I'm sorry about Hurricane. What a lovely photo you posted.

Sue said...

It must be a family trait, Heather. Outside of my work, I don't notice details either, people can gain or lose 20 lbs and I wouldn't notice! However, at work it is a very different story since my attention to detail (or lack) can influence the surgeon's decision and a patient's surgical outcome - so I am very focused at work.
I think that when it matters to you, you pay attention to the details - your photography for instance.
As for your clothes - there is ALWAYS 1 detail that you insist on - pockets!!! ;-))

Spot On Your Pants said...

You should leave the stick drawing. I think it's a memory you have! I can't delete my dad's email address from my Yahoo account and he died in June. Sorry, you and I are both detail-less girls. I'm never buying anything that requires ironing. Seriously, why?!?

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Haddock said...

.....and giving too much details in the blog actually puts off some people.